About Being: Married & Unmarried |
1 Corinthians 7:1-40 Paul's 1st Epistle to the Corinthians [in Smaller Chunks] |
Now, [related] [to] the things [of which] you wrote to me. It is good for a man not to touch a woman. [Still,] to avoid fornication, [a.k.a. sexual relations outside of marriage,] let every man have his own wife, & let every woman have her own husband. |
Let the husband [give] to the wife, due benevolence. And also the wife [shall do] [the same] to the husband. The wife [doesn't have] power [over] her own body, but the husband [does.] And also [the same,] the husband [doesn't have] power [over] his own body, but the wife [does.] |
[Don't] defraud, [a.k.a. deprive,] one another, [unless it's] with consent for a [certain period of] time, [so] that you may give yourselves to fasting & prayer. And come together again, [so] that Satan [doesn't] tempt you, [because of] your [inconsistency.] [1 Peter 5:8 You be sober & vigilant; because your [enemy,] the devil, [is] like a roaring lion, [walking around,] seeking whom he may devour.] |
But I speak this, [by way of:] permission [allowing it,] & not [by way of a] commandment. For I [want] that all men were even as I, myself. But every man [has] his proper gift [from] God. One [according] [to] this [type] [of gift from God,] & another, [according] [to] that [type.] |
Therefore, I say to the unmarried & [the] widows, it is good for them, if they abide, [a.k.a. remain,] even [like] I [am.] But if they can't contain, [a.k.a. restrain,] [themselves,] let them marry. For it's better to marry than to burn [with lust.] [1Timothy 5:14-15 Therefore, I [wish] that the younger women marry; bear children; guide, [a.k.a. oversee,] the house; & give [no] occasion to the [enemy] to speak reproachfully, [a.k.a. judgmentally.] For some [have] already turned aside, [a.k.a. gone astray,] after Satan.] |
And I command to the married, [still] not I, but the Lord. [Don't] let the wife depart from her husband. [Matthew 5:32 But I say to you, That [whoever] shall put away, [a.k.a. divorce,] his wife, [except] for the [reason] of fornication, [a.k.a. infidelity, causes] her to commit adultery. And [whoever] shall marry her, [who] is divorced, [commits] adultery.] |
But if she [departs,] let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband. And [don't] let the husband put away, [a.k.a. divorce,] his wife. But to the rest, I speak, not the Lord, If any brother [in the faith,] [has] a wife, [who doesn't believe] [in Christ,] & she [is] pleased to [live] with him, [don't] let him put her away, [a.k.a. divorce her.] |
And the woman, [who has a] husband, [who doesn't believe] [in Jesus Christ,] & if he [is] pleased to [live] with her, [don't] let her leave him. For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife. And the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: [or] else your children were unclean; but now they are holy. [Ezra 9:2 for they have taken [from] their daughters for themselves, & for their sons. So, that the holy seed, [a.k.a. Israelites,] have mingled, [a.k.a. intermixed,] themselves with the people of those lands. [Yes,] the hand of the princes & rulers [have] been chief, [a.k.a. foremost,] in this trespass, [a.k.a. sin.] |
But if the unbelieving [departs,] let him depart. [In the faith,] a brother or a sister isn't under bondage, [a.k.a. under the commandments of the Law of Moses,] in such cases. But God [has] called us to peace. [Romans 12:18 If it [is] possible, as much as you [are able,] live [peacefully] with all men.] |
For what [do] you [know,] O wife, whether you [shall] save your husband? Or how [do] you [know,] O man, whether you [shall] save your wife? But [like] God [has] distributed to every man, & [like] the Lord [has] called everyone, let him walk so, [a.k.a. accordingly.] |
And so I ordain [this] in all churches. Is any man being circumcised, called? Let him not become uncircumcised. Is [anyone, uncircumcised,] called? Let him not [become] circumcised. Circumcision is nothing. And uncircumcision is nothing, but the keeping of the commandments of God. |
Let every man abide, [a.k.a. remain,] in the same calling, [with which] he was called. Are you, being a servant, called? [Don't worry about] it. But if you [are] made free, use it [instead] [to benefit the Lord God.] For being a servant, he [who] is called in the Lord, is the Lord's freeman. |
[In the same way,] also he, [who] is called, being free, is Christ's servant. You are bought with a price. [Matthew 20:28 *Even [like] the Son of Man [didn't come] to be ministered to, [a.k.a. served,] but to minister, [a.k.a. to serve,] & to give His Life [as] a Ransom for many.] |
[Don't] be the servants of men. Brethren, [a.k.a. fellow-believers,] let every man abide, [a.k.a. remain,] with God, in [whichever] [thing] he is called [to do.] Now, [related] [to] virgins, I have no commandment [from] the Lord. [Still,] I give my judgment, as [someone who has] obtained mercy [from] the Lord, to be faithful. |
Therefore, I suppose that this is good for the present, [a.k.a. current,] distress, & I say, that it is good for a man to be so, [a.k.a. unmarried,] [& dedicated to the Lord.] |
[Are] you bound to a wife? [Don't] seek to be [loosened] [from this contract.] [Are] you [loosened, a.k.a. divorced,] from a wife? [Don't] seek a wife. But if you marry, you [haven't] sinned. And if a virgin [marries,] she [hasn't] sinned. [However,] [those] such [as these,] shall have trouble [within] the flesh; but I spare, [a.k.a. excuse,] you. |
But I say this, brethren, the time is short. It [remains,] that both [those, who] have wives, be [dedicated to the Lord,] as [if] they had none [to distract them.] And [those, who] weep, [be dedicated,] as though they [hadn't wept.] And [those, who] rejoice, [be dedicated,] as [if] they [hadn't] rejoiced. And [those, who] buy [property, be dedicated,] as [if] they [hadn't] possessed, [a.k.a. owned it.] |
And [those, who] use this [world's] [resources, be dedicated,] as [if] [they wouldn't] [abuse] it. For the fashion of this world [passes] away. [1 John 2:17 And the world & [its] lusts, [pass] away. But [those, who do] the will of God, [abide, a.k.a. remain,] forever.] |
But I would [like to] have you [be] without carefulness, [a.k.a. caution.] He, who] is unmarried, [cares about] the things that belong to the Lord, & how he may please the Lord. But he, [who] is married, [cares about] the things that are of the world, & how he may please his wife. |
There is also a difference between a wife & a virgin. The unmarried woman [cares about] the things of the Lord, [so] that she may be holy in both: body & spirit. But she, [who] is married, [cares about] the things of the world, & how she may please her husband. |
And I speak this for your own [benefit.] Not that I may cast a snare upon, [a.k.a. ensnare,] you, but [because] [of] that which is comely, [a.k.a. beguiling, so] that you may attend [to] the [Lord's] [needs] without distraction. |
But if any man [thinks] that he [behaves inappropriately] toward his virgin [daughter,] if [she's past] the flower of her age, [a.k.a. age of bearing children,] & [as] need [requires,] let him do what he [wants,] so he [doesn't] sin. Let them marry. |
[However,] he, [who stands steadfast, a.k.a. devoted,] in his heart [to the Lord God,] & [has] no necessity, but [has] power over his own will, & has [decided this] in his heart, that he will keep his virgin [daughter unmarried,] [does] well. So then, he, [who gives] her in marriage [does] well; but he, [who doesn't give] her in marriage [does] better. |
The wife is bound by the law, as long as her husband [lives.] But if her husband [is] dead, she is at liberty, [a.k.a. free,] to be married, only [through] the Lord, to whom she [wants.] But I have the Spirit of God, & [according] [to] my judgment, I also think she is happier, if she [abides] so, [a.k.a. remains a virgin.] |